Over the past year I have been given a great number of messages concerning Love, the lightworker’s purpose and relationships that we have with members of our soul family (including our twin and soul mates). It has been on my heart to share Source’s messages with you, though it is difficult to be short and concise because the wisdom that has been offered is enough to write a book on! Creator is ultimately wishing to impart on you the importance of a Lightworker’s mate selection, the issues in your relationships that arise due to your awakening and the Universal Law of Love -which asks that we always be cognisant of the choices we make and how they not only influence us but others.

As a lightworker, as you have awakened you have likely found yourself in a situation that many lightworkers have experienced: a continued divergence in the path between you and your significant other. This divergence happens because your old self which was at one time ruled by your lower self made a relationship choice. Now, however, since you have progressed on your awakened path the relationship is not able to meet your needs because you are literally living on two different planes of existence. This has nothing to do with falling out of love with your partner. You still have love for her/him, but the fact of the matter is that they are ruled by their lowerself while you are more and more ruled by your higher self (your soul). This three-part article series speaks to this particular issue that many lightworkers have/are/will face. Source has a clear message for lightworkers, as you are being asked you to evaluate your romantic partnership (perhaps marriage) that you are currently in or that you were in. Creator wishes you to reflect on your purpose here as a lightworker (Part 1) and the Law of Love vs culture (Part 2). Specifically, you are being called to Live love but to also examine how culture may be impeding you on your journey (Part 3).

Importantly, Source wishes you to understand your purpose here and the importance of your mate selection as an awakened lightworker. The messages that follow are for all lightworkers, but they will speak differently to those of you who have a partner vs those of you who do not currently have a partner.

As we journey and awaken our path with some will diverge, while our path with others will begin to converge. As our frequency increases we begin to find like-minded souls who are cognisant of their incarnation here. The very fact that you are finding these souls (such as me!) means that you have or are in the midst of releasing karma. Once you open your path by accepting what it is you are (a lightworker), you will notice three general forms of people coming to you: those in your soul family, those who are kindred souls, and those who are not kindred souls but sense your light. If you are seeking a relationship, the first two groups are people that you should consider having partnerships with. Those in the last group -they are not in your soul family or a kindred soul. In other words they are not lightworkers and they are of a lower vibration. With these people you should not entertain the thought of having an intimate relationship. It is important to have all kinds of people in your life, however Source reminds you to be mindful with whom you decide to share your energy with. When I say ‘share your energy’, I am specifically meaning who you choose to have sexual relations with. And, by sexual relations -I mean any form. There is a long continuum in what sexual relations consists of -from sexual yearning, to discussion, to any form of bodily contact (kissing, hugging, intercourse, etc). In fact, depending on your vibration -you can very well intentionally have intimate encounters -which is a mixing of your energies- with others at the soul level. Please be cognisant of this because just as lightworkers have the ability to uplift other people’s frequency, we are also influenced by people who are a lower vibration. You can and will be pulled down to lower frequencies if you choose to share your energy with someone at a lower frequency.

Awakened lightworkers would not purposefully interface with such people, that is to say have sexual relations -but at times we can be easily fooled by false twinflames. False twinflames mimic in some ways the relation that you will have with your actual twin, but they are not your twin. With false twins, you feel in the core of your being that something just isn’t right (and this is your higher self speaking out to you). But the problem is -so many other things seem so ‘right’ and to just fit together that you can be easily enamoured by the false twin. When you eventually meet your twin, you will come to see these similarities between the two -but you will recognize a distinct difference and you will recall yourself having thought: ‘how could this be my twin?’ ‘this cant be my twin!’ You might even remember yourself feeling contempt, questioning Source …’how can this be my twin!!! This isn’t right.’ When your soul speaks to you like this, Source urges you to listen. If something seems off, chances are it is off!

As a lightworker, ultimately you are meant to be with your twinflame if they have incarnated here. Twins do not always incarnate together in this plane, but when they do -be assured that you are meant to physically be with this person. In saying this, each of you has free will -but remember this was the purpose of your journey here: to be together physically and to work in this plane transmuting darkness into light. Whether separate or together in this life, you and your twin have identical energetic fingerprints and so at the soul level you are always united, though you are separate distinguishable entities.

The twinflame is not based on a romantic notion of what love is, but rather what the purpose of Love is and the role that twinflames have in manifesting Love (transmuting darkness into Light) in this plane. The purpose of a twinflame union is to ignite Love, and therefore help to shift the energy in this realm (and consequentially throughout all time and space). While this is the ultimate purpose of lightworkers, having your twin in the human form with you amplifies your vibrational state, and therefore your ability to transmute. In many ways the lightworker journey is complex and beyond the parameters of this article -but what I have outlined is the ultimate essence and purpose of the twinflame connection.

When you meet your twin you will know. Depending on the depth of your awakened state, when you meet your twin you will feel an amazing mutual connection; a magnetic mutual sexual attraction. When you touch, kiss and make love with your twin it is like nothing you have ever experienced. It is the bliss of being unified with all that is. Again, depending on your vibration, this connection is so vivid that you may be able to feel each other's feelings and telepathically communicate. As a lightworker you may be accustomed to helping others with your empathetic and telepathic senses, however with your twin it is a two way street. If you find your twin this is a relationship to revel in and deeply cherish as it is your raison d'etre and the magnificent universal healing that comes about through this incarnation is unsurpassable to none.

In addition to the twinflame, other members of our soul family will make good partners for the lightworker. As a lightworker, chances are if you are positively attracted to someone (whether in a partner or friendship way) they are likely apart of your soul family. These are the souls whom are closest to us in the energetic fabric of Creation. We are meant to be in romantic relationships and close friendships that are spiritually based with those in our soul family. We are meant to come into contact and to help one another on our soul journey. In our soul family some have incarnated here with us, when we find these individuals we may be romantically attracted to them. If this is the case we often refer to them as a soul mate. Typically we will recognize them immediately as their energy print is similar to our own. If your soul mate has a similar frequency as you, your coming together to form a relationship will be mutually beneficial and strong. The chemistry found between soul mates is beautiful, though not as amazing as that experienced between twinflames. While soul mates can work together for the betterment and healing of Creation, the fruits of their labour do not match that of the twinflame union. Because twinflames do not always incarnate at the same time or one may have passed away -soul mates are here to support each other. As a lightworker you can have a blissfilled life with one of your soul mates.

While a soul mate can be an ideal partner, they might not share the same frequency with you as they might have only begun their awakening journey. When you meet such people you will not be able to have an ideal relationship since you are both living on different plane of existence. Perhaps in time this will shift, though perhaps it will not. Know that when you come into contact with members of your soul family, and share energy with them -it is for growth, development and encouragement. Embrace these moments, as your relationship with them may be short lived or it might be life long. Either way it will be intense and the learning and wisdom that you will both take away will be phenomenal.

In addition, lightworkers may find beneficial parings with kindred souls. Kindred souls have similar frequencies, though they are from different soul families. When you meet kindred souls, it is a different feeling from when you meet your twin or soul mates. It is a feeling of knowing and remembrance of the other. While this feeling is shared with twins and soul mates, the (sexual or other) energy produced by this interaction is not as intense. Nevertheless, lightworkers can have meaningful Love filled relations with such individuals.

By being in intimate communion with kindred souls, those in your soul family, -ultimately your twinflame, the synergy that is created is enormous. This energy, which is Light, which is Love -has immense healing powers -for this realm of being and beyond. These relationships are the one’s that you have come here to find. Be assured that as an awakened lightworker, your path will guide you to them. If you have not yet met your twin or soul mates, you can call on them through soul communication or you can ask Source to lead you to them. When they arrive there is no questioning who they are, because you will know.

Please reflect on all that has been shared. There is much to take in. Each of you has a unique life, with unique circumstances. Even so, as will be discussed in the next article there are shared experiences that lightworkers face in being presented with their appropriate match, specifically their twinflame. The next article will also share messages from Creator surrounding cultural norms vs the Law of Love in regards to meeting and having a relationship with your twinflame or one of your soul mates.

Brilliance to you! Namaskar ∞

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Male Light Workers, Part II

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